Some loving folks have tried to help me by recommending various spiritual or psychological “cures”.
If the barn’s already on fire, try to save the horses first, then the barn.
If you can plan ahead and install a fire supression system, more power to ya !
I had a deadly virus infect my liver. By the time I found out it was there, the horses were dead.
The treatment may be unbalancing me and causing massive suffering but the fire will not spread to the main house…